What I Want In a Guy

What I want in a guy is love. A love for God above all, then for me, then for the rest of the world. He would love me in an innocent & sincere way, never pushing me in any way.  He'd listen to me & put all before himself.  His touch would electrify me every single time. He'd go out of his way to make me feel loved & special. He'd know all that I feel & help me through it. We'd be close, (living wise & friendship wise). My family would love him, & he'd always be kind, loving, & polite. He'd be perfect. He'd have dreams that were beautiful & he's help me be a better person. I'd be the same for him. Church would be amazing, holding his hand, praying with him, praising God for all that we have. I'd never want to let him go. He would be my best friend, my true companion. I could tease him, he could tease me, he'd love kids. He'd sing & dance. He'd be amazing, wonderful, perfect. He'd be the answer to all my prayers, & everything I've asked for. He'd be a good cook & he'd talk & sing & be silly all the while. If I made a mistake he'd laugh it off with me. When we get fights, he wouldn't cave in if he was right. I'd try my best to be perfect for him even though I wouldn't deserve him. But he'd love me for me. He'd love my siblings & my parents. He'd show me a world I never knew was there. We'd walk side by side through all the trials & tests. We'd walk through life together forever & we'd last the problems & troubles. He'd be mine forever, & I'd be his. God would be at our center & we'd keep it that way. In His light we'd walk & every night we'd pray to thank Him for giving us life. I know this guy sounds too good to be true & I'm betting he is, but I can dream for him & who knows? One day I might find him.

I wrote this Spring of 2009, listing off what I want in a life partner, & it's eye opening to look around & see that the world doesn't seem to make there kinds of guys anymore. That's no slight on my boyfriend because he means the world to me, but no man is this perfect, not even my dashing detective.